London – The emotional problems that children experience worry fathers, especially mothers, because they fear for their feelings, as children often experience emotional upheavals that require support and help from families to overcome them and do their best to save them.
Many mothers suffer from the negative effects that can arise from immature love for their children, especially in adolescence, including the psychological and academic effects reflected on children because of their emotional relationships at this stage and their exposure to psychological pressures. and mental. which can lead to inappropriate behavior due to the instability of their feelings and lack of their emotional relationships are going well, which worries mothers, as boys in Arab societies often tell their mothers about relationships their emotional and the problems to which they are exposed.
Moreover, poor academic performance and low scores for children, due to their emotional problems, concentration and thinking about them at the expense of studies, affect mothers with anxiety and confusion. The onset of guilty feelings about having the affair, in the first place, further zaps whatever energy the partner having the affair might still have left. jealousy and distrust of others quickly because of his personal experiences that may expose him to shock, injury and pain.Psychological result of separation in separation.
Specialists pointed out that adolescent children’s emotional relationships are among the red lines that many families in Arab societies avoid discussing, as parents focus their efforts so that the adolescent pays attention to the study and many parents deviate from love conversations related to boys. their teenagers. .
Emotional disorders manifest through children suffering from excessive frustration and anger, where symptoms in more than one emotional distress may overlap with rapid and sudden mood swings, and younger adolescents may also develop physical symptoms associated with emotional disturbances such as stomach aches, headaches or vomiting. .
Depression is one of the most prominent emotional disorders in adolescence, which can deeply affect the adolescent, his studies and school attendance, and causes social withdrawal, worsening of isolation and loneliness, and in the worst case, can lead to an attempt at self-harm.
The experts explained that the negative intervention of parents and the lack of positive support for their children in solving emotional problems can aggravate their suffering and negatively affect their communication and psychological health, emphasizing that parents should set boundaries and clarify them for their children and do not exaggerate the warning and scare them out of love and consider it a defect.
They stressed the need to support children in this difficult period of their lives, to avoid their islands and to reprimand them, and to follow the method of dialogue and listening to gain their trust in them. keep them away from dangers and problems that may fall. in.
Experts said it is normal for children, starting from adolescence, to live with delicate feelings, dreams and raging emotions, but these feelings need guidance so as not to cause psychological pressure and crisis.
They stressed that at different stages of their lives they need the support and encouragement of their families, respecting and accepting their feelings, listening and holding on to their problems and understanding their psychological and emotional motives and needs, note that every young person at This stage aims to establish a successful relationship and the problems that may result from them are negatively reflected in his psychological state and causing real shock in his family.
The emotional relationships of teenage children are among the red lines that many families in Arab societies avoid discussing.
They pointed out that young people’s emotional relationships are based on inaccurate bases and their feelings are expressed impulsively and casually. As for adolescents’ emotional relationships, they usually possess their own feelings and can lead to anxiety and turmoil and thus need to satisfy their emotional needs and achieve psychological security and stability within their families.
They explained that young people face emotional problems and need the support of their families, but adolescents struggle to understand this new complexity and when children are in periods of anger, frustration and pain due to coping with emotional trauma, they should to feel that everything is fine. without underestimating the value of what parents are going through.
They showed that few young people honestly tell their families about their emotional relationships at a young age, emphasizing that sincerity with parents about emotional relationships in the early years of adolescence is lacking and maintaining the confidentiality of these emotional relationships is a reaction from young people. people because fathers refuse to delve into the emotional issues with which children are involved.
They pointed out that the adolescence stage is one of the most difficult developmental stages that the child and his family face and is a confusing stage in which the adolescent tries to balance his feelings and consciousness and the parents are confused. about how to deal with his feelings and behaviors, because they are aware of the difficulty of the stage he is going through on the one hand and because the teen’s feelings are more complex It is not only difficult for parents to deal with their son adolescent. , but it is also difficult for them to understand his feelings and expressions for them.
Falling in love causes many problems and disorders in children, especially in adolescence, such as being in a relationship with a person who does not have the same feelings for them, which causes them pain and anxiety. And pain can hinder their ability to create other romantic relationships in the future.
The researchers pointed out that the negative effects of emotional relationship problems are not limited to children, but are reflected in parents, due to the difficulty in proper treatment with adolescents; Because of the harshness of his temperament and his confusing fluctuations between joy and happiness, extreme sadness and sometimes intense bonding.
They showed that fathers and mothers are subjected to great pressure when observing and directing their children’s behavior and acknowledging their temperament and sometimes violent reactions, emphasizing the importance of their role in raising their awareness, staying close to and supporting them at this stage. , and always befriending them, listening to them and approaching them.
Many families reject the love affair their children go through during adolescence for a number of reasons, including the rejection of the party with which their son or daughter was related or their failure to study, in addition to their concerns about the seriousness of this relationship and the psychological and health effects that result from it.
A recent American study warned teens not to enter into romantic relationships; Because it has a negative impact on their psyche. He found that students who did not have romantic relationships had stronger social skills and were less depressed than their peers.
Their results found that students who were not in love scored significantly higher scores than those who were engaged in romantic relationships and their social and leadership skills were better.
He also found that students who were not in romantic relationships scored less on depression than their peers. Co-author of the study Dr. Lauren Kelly explained that their findings raise concerns about relationships that may leave teens more vulnerable to depression and may reinforce problem behaviors such as substance abuse.
She stressed that teens who do not fall in love as teenagers end well, perhaps even better than their peers in future romantic relationships.
Specialists said that problems related to love and emotional relationships in adolescence affect the psyche of adolescents in several ways, explaining that the feeling of disappointment or heartbreak leads to sadness and depression. Neglecting studies also exacerbates children’s problems with their families, in addition to the fact that the large number of bad experiences and frustrations in the field of emotional relationships negatively affect future emotional relationships and predict more emotional failures.